Men are “lookers.” They are made that way. How does it affect the love you have for one another? It does not. Men just really think women’s faces and bodies are fantastic! The bottom line is that they (men) want you (women) more than anyone else. Thanks for reading. Gotta go, Ryan Reynolds is waiting for me. After that, I … Continue reading
Find a "Couple" of Friends with Kids (if you have kids too)
One of the biggest travesties that a relationship with children triggers is the loss of frequency of sexy time! You and your good man must find and establish friendships with some mutually appreciative couple(s) to dump your kids off at their place in the name of all things found rolling in the hay (and vice versa) It’s healthy for you … Continue reading
Find a "Couple" of Friends
Recruiting new friends that come in pairs with keep us all together longer and with less stress. Ever get disgusted with me because I’m always late? What a bonding moment it is to meet up with one of our couple friends, and you men can both quickly point out that it was us, we ladies, who both kept you from … Continue reading
Acting Happy
Hone in on the these two ideas: acting vs. being. If you act unhappy this is a moral shortcoming. It is not a shortcoming to be unhappy. If you act angry this is a moral shortcoming. It is not a shortcoming to be angry. In life, be an upper. You can be real, just not a real downer or a … Continue reading
My Take on “Facebook Parenting”
Someone emailed me this video and wanted to know what I thought of it, so here it is. My take: On face value, this is a “she said/he said/and then he did that” story. Except that she said so much more than she said. It was most interesting to me. We have a girl who, at this point in her … Continue reading
How to Be Happy in Your Relationship
You know The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Steven Covey)? The reason we need a book like that is because, when we’re not highly effective ourselves, we don’t know what that looks like day in and out. Emulating the life of the highly effective person makes you, eventually, highly effective. I listen to people, every day, who only do … Continue reading
The Demasculinization of Men
I have observed that too many men are turning into women, even though, instinctively, they resist it. This just turns them into very confused people. Men do fight it. It is this resistance that causes me to stop and listen to the real message. It’s a great open book that is not easy to read but is worth laboring over, … Continue reading
My Husband Watches Porn
Pornography (containing adult subjects) is a beneficial and healthy activity for a man. It does not generally destroy people or relationships. The more open you are as a couple about it, the less problematic it is likely to become. It is not at all the same as “partner sex” and is not a substitute for it. It is a highly … Continue reading
